Stress!

I have to pay for school...I have to pay to eat on vacation...I want to have fun...I need to find a job, but don't want too...Please help me, My parents want me to do all this stuff but when I ask for help I usually dont get the help I need. They tell me to grow up and that I should be able to figure things out for myself. I'm still a little girl who didn't give a care about the world until this year and is now trying to play catch up! I wish I knew what I was doing...but truth be told, I don't have a clue. I don't know anything about bills or expenses, or government stuff, ask my friend Mady what I thought a fashist was...I feel I know nothing in this world of utter chaos. what is wrong?